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"I have WAY too much going on. It sort of escalated gradually and I didn't sort of realize it as it was happening, but now I'm like - I'm...

This blog post was going to open with a sentence like, "Social norms about men's roles and responsibilities limit our options for...

For the past few weeks, I have wrestled with my tendency to invite excess busy-ness and chaos into my life. I have talked about this in...

Holy shit, I'm tired. Not the kind of tired that's remedied with a nap, though. My soul is tired. You almost didn't get to read that...

"Endurance." The word struck me like I was the bishop in Caddyshack or Reg in The Great Outdoors. I was in the gym, working out while...

"I've heard that there will be days when I get to be the hammer," I say, defeated, as we line up to bow out. Sweat runs down my bald...

Some folks manage to get ahead of the curve in the stock market, buying Apple or Amazon when they were like $3 a share. Me? I was ahead...

I spent my 39th birthday at military boot camp. Well, in the interest of full disclosure, it was US Air Force officer school,...

Upon completing my master's degree, I applied to doctoral programs, not so much because I expected to get in, but because I thought it...

Oh my goodness!!! I have become a big, fat, fuck. Listen, it is not my intention to fat-shame anyone, including me. Despite my...

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